
This Children’s Mental Health Week (9 -15 February), Childline is reminding all young people that the service is here to support them with any concerns.
Childline delivered 763 counselling sessions last year to children in Scotland struggling with suicidal thoughts and feelings.
As the charity releases this data, it is reminding all young people that the service is there for them for any issues they might be having. Their trained counsellors can support children who are feeling suicidal and need someone to talk to.
Young people reach out to Childline about suicidal thoughts and feelings for a range of reasons, including:
- Feeling lost and desperate about their current situation
- The result of a mental health condition
- Past experiences
One boy, aged 15 from Scotland, told Childline: “For ages now I have been having thoughts about hurting or killing myself.
“I’m absolutely terrified of death and scared my body will make me do it. I’m trying my best to keep myself together but it’s hard.
“I just needed to tell someone who’ll listen and believe me.”
In one in five of the Childline counselling sessions delivered to children in Scotland about this issue, the child was deemed to be actively suicidal, which can include vocalising their clear plan for taking their life or engaging in suicidal actions. The other 80% involved children who were seeking support outside of an immediate crisis.
Some children tell Childline that suicidal thoughts can be a normal part of their life and are a regular – sometimes daily – occurrence.
One child said: “Unless I distract myself, I’m having suicidal thoughts. Even when I think I’m happy or trying to sleep, it’ll pop into my head, ‘why am I here?’. My doctor and mum are trying lots of things to help.
“Telling my friends about it helps; we talk, we resolve it, the thought goes away. I feel quite calm when it happens, not sad like you’d expect, but I am aware that it’s a suicidal thought and I would like it if they stopped.”

The NSPCC is releasing this data as part of Place2Be’s Children’s Mental Health Week, which aims to support the groups and systems surrounding children.
The children’s mental health charity will be encouraging peers, families, schools and communities to create inclusive and nurturing environments, where children and young people feel they belong and can say “This is My Place”.

Shaun Friel, Childline Director, said: “These figures reveal the devastating reality about children struggling with thoughts of suicide. Behind each statistic is a young person in pain, often feeling alone.
“But these numbers also represent hope. For every one of these 763 sessions for children in Scotland there was a moment when a child chose to reach out rather than suffer in silence. Our counsellors are there 24/7 because we know that having someone to talk to can be the difference between despair and hope, between isolation and connection.
“Our message to every young person is simple: you are not alone. Whatever you’re going through, however dark things feel, Childline is here. We’re here to listen, to believe you, and to help you find a way through.”
To support adults and children, the charity has released advice on helping young people through these difficult emotions.
Tips for adults, parents and carers:
- If the young person is in immediate danger or wants to act on their thoughts, don’t hesitate and contact emergency services (999) or take them to A&E.
- Listen without judgment and let the young person talk openly about how they are feeling. Avoid jumping to conclusions, interrupting or offering immediate solutions. Being there and listening can make a huge difference.
- For some people, talking to a young person on this topic can be quite daunting, if you are worried about speaking to a young person about suicidal thoughts and feelings, then suggest they reach out to Childline.
- Remind the young person that they are not alone and that there are other people who go through similar thoughts and feelings. Let them know that support is available and that things can get better.
- Supporting a young person with suicidal thoughts and feelings is not a one-time conversation. Checking in regularly can remind them that they matter and that they are not alone. They may not always want to talk and that’s ok, you can let them know that you are there whenever they are ready.
Advice for children and young people:
- Having suicidal thoughts and feelings can be really scary. You might feel alone and like you don’t know how to keep going. But even small change is positive, there are plenty of ways to help you to start to feel better and cope with your feelings. The Childline website has a range of support and information.
- It’s really important to speak to someone if you feel suicidal or you’re worried you’ll harm yourself, whether that’s a safe adult in your life or a service, such as Childline.
- Work with an adult to create a safety plan. This will help you to know what to do in future when you feel you can’t cope again. Sometimes this is called a mental health first aid kit. This could include people to contact (such a Childline), safe places to go, ways to stay safe and ideas for healthy coping mechanisms.
- The Childline website has advice and practical methods on how to cope with suicidal thoughts and feelings. For instance, repeating a positive phrase which reminds you that you can cope with things can often help when everything feels too much.
- Adults in your life and services, such as Childline, are here to support you through these difficult emotions, remember that you are not expected to cope with these feelings on your own.
Childline is here for every young person who is experiencing suicidal thoughts and feelings, trained counsellors can be reached via the phone on 0800 1111 and online through the 121 chat on the Childline website.
The NSPCC recently published a report on Young people’s experiences of suicidal thoughts and feelings on the NSPCC Learning website:














