Nearly half of parents feel in competition to throw the ‘best’ birthday party, Moonpig reveals

  • Almost 50% of parents feel pressured to throw their baby or toddler a birthday party, even if they won’t remember it
  • Parents admit to spending up to £250 on their baby’s birthday
  • Dads feel the most pressure to throw their children the best birthday party

For many new parents, social media feeds are seemingly filled with scenes of extravagant birthday parties other parents are throwing their young children, leading to feelings of guilt and pressure to compete – but how much truth is in what we see online?

Moonpig, the UK’s leading online greeting card retailer, surveyed 1,000 parents of 0-3-year-olds to uncover how we’re really celebrating our children.

Competitive celebrations: Nearly half of all parents feel in competition with other parents to throw the ‘best’ party

The survey revealed that nearly half of all parents (49%) admitted to throwing a birthday party more for the guests and other parents than for the child themselves. Over two-fifths (43%) felt as though they competed with other parents to throw the ‘best’ party for their child.

Interestingly, the research revealed dads feel the most pressure when it comes to throwing the ‘best’ party, with more than half (52%) stating that they feel in competition with other parents, compared to just 39% of mothers. Similarly, half of Gen-Z (50%) were found to feel pressure to throw the ‘best’ party – more than any other age group.

Party pressure: A third of parents now hire a professional party planner for their toddler’s birthday

Almost half (46%) of the parents surveyed admitted to feeling pressure from family and friends to throw a birthday party for their young child. To make sure that the party lives up to expectations, one in three (30%) admitted to using a party planner to plan their toddlers’ birthday parties.

Planning stress: The majority of parents find planning their child’s birthday party a major source of stress

Over half of parents (55%) said they felt stressed when planning their young children’s birthdays, with mums suffering the most – with almost three in five mothers (57%) feeling stressed, compared to 49% of dads.

Picture-perfect parties: Social media influences parents to throw aesthetic birthday parties

Almost three in five parents (59%) felt inspired by social media to throw their young child an “aesthetic” birthday party. Gen-Z and millennial parents care the most about their child’s birthday looking picture perfect on social media, with 44% citing this as a key consideration. 14% went as far as to say the main reason they threw their young child a party was to post about it on social media.

Costly candles: Parents are struggling to stick to birthday party budgets

Brits spend on average £248 to celebrate their baby’s birthday, with 55% of parents revealing they struggle to stick to a budget for the occasion. In addition, almost two-thirds (65%) of parents agreed that birthday parties for babies and toddlers had become too extravagant.

When asked why they throw their young children birthday parties even if they won’t remember it, almost two-thirds (61%) cited that the celebration was to create lasting memories with family and close ones, and so their young child can look back on pictures and videos when they’re older.

Four in five (82%) also agreed that they prioritised creating memorable experiences for their child over an extravagant party.

Modern milestones: How parents celebrate their baby’s birthday

When celebrating their little ones, parents are likely to stick to the classics with traditional party food (66%), creating goodie bags (61%) and supermarket-bought birthday cake (61%), taking the lead on baby birthday party essentials.

RankBaby Birthday Essentials% Who Have Done This
1Offered traditional party food options (buffet, pizza, sandwiches)66%
2Created goodie bags for guests61%
3Bought a supermarket birthday cake61%
4Bought a custom-baked personalised birthday cake59%
5Arranged specific food and drink options just for adults (cocktails, nicer food)57%
6Created entertainment for the party myself52%
7Arranged activities for the guests to do (bouncy castle, inflatable obstacle course, giant slides)52%
8Baked my own birthday cake46%
9Given a party a pop culture theme (superheroes, princesses, favourite characters from movies/TV shows)45%
10Offered custom photo opportunities for guests (Balloon arches, custom backdrops, photobooths)42%

Sarah-Jane Porter, Moonpig’s Global Design & Licensing Director, comments: “At Moonpig, we champion celebrating milestone moments, and early years birthdays are no exception. With growing pressure to make sure our babies’ earliest celebrations are memorable, it’s unsurprising that parents are going the extra mile to celebrate their young children.

“We know how important it is for these special moments to feel truly unique and personal to the recipient, which is why our range of personalised cards are great for celebrating your little one.

“From sharing milestone pictures and videos or including their favourite characters, our cards are the perfect keepsake for them to look back on in years to come.”

Restalrig death: Man to appear in court tomorrow

A 55-year-old man has been arrested and charged in connection with the death of a woman in East Edinburgh.

Around 1am on Thursday, 28 August, 2025, Police were called to a report of a disturbance at a property on Restalrig Avenue.

Emergency services attended and a 43-year-old woman was taken to the Royal Infirmary of Edinburgh for treatment, where she died a short time later.

Her next of kin are aware and are being supported by specialist officers.

She can now be named as Ndata Bobb.

The man was taken to St John’s Hospital for treatment. He has since been arrested and charged in connection with the death and is expected to appear at Edinburgh Sheriff Court tomorrow – Monday, 1 September, 2025.

Detective Inspector Kevin Tait said: “Our thoughts remain with the family and friends of Ndata at this extremely difficult time.

“Our investigation remains ongoing, however we are not looking for anyone else in connection with Ndata’s death.

“This is a shocking incident and I would urge anyone with any concerns, or information, to contact police.”

St Columba’s Furniture Centre: Discount Day next Saturday

SATURDAY 6th SEPTEMBER from 10am – 5pm

Whether you’re looking for quality pre-loved furniture at great prices or just fancy a browse, a cuppa and cake, pop along to our Furniture Centre next Saturday for our exclusive discount day!

Every penny raised through the sale of pre-loved goods goes to support vital hospice care in our community.

https://stcolumbashospice.org.uk/shop/furniture-centre

Hourglass: Failed Risk Tool Exposed

Older Victim-Survivors Deserve Better Safeguards

Hourglass – the only UK-wide charity dedicated to ending the abuse, harm, exploitation and neglect of older people – has responded to comments by the Safeguarding Minister, Jess Phillips, who admitted the DASH tool “doesn’t work”.

DASH – the UK’s main risk assessment tool for domestic abuse – could soon be scrapped, after mounting evidence shows it has repeatedly failed to identify high-risk cases.

For more than a decade, professionals across the UK have relied on DASH. Yet independent studies reveal that victims who were later killed, or suffered repeated abuse, were often assessed as only ‘standard’ or ‘medium’ risk. Families who lost loved ones are now taking legal action against institutions that relied on this flawed tool.

Hourglass has long warned that DASH was never fit for purpose when it came to older victim-survivors. Abuse in later life often looks very different: dependency on carers or family members, economic coercion, neglect and isolation.

By contrast, DASH questions were built around the experiences of younger victims, often focusing on stalking, harassment or recent relationship breakdowns.

Crucially, Hourglass reminds policymakers that abuse of older people is not just a women and girls’ issue:

  • Older men make up a significant proportion of callers to the Hourglass helpline.
  • Abuse can be perpetrated by adult children, relatives, or even professional carers – not just intimate partners.
  • Risk tools designed solely within a VAWG (Violence Against Women and Girls) framework leave older men, and those outside traditional victim stereotypes, unseen and unsupported.

Richard Robinson, Chief Executive of Hourglass, said: “Older victim-survivors of abuse are too often invisible in the safeguarding system.

“Hourglass has never believed that DASH adequately reflected the realities of abuse in later life – whether those victims are women or men. Replacing DASH must be more than a technical fix.

“It must embed an age-inclusive, gender-inclusive understanding of abuse, backed by training, resourced services, and accountability across every agency.”

Hourglass is calling on government and safeguarding partners to:

  • Ensure any replacement risk tool reflects the unique dynamics of abuse against older people, including economic dependence, carer-abuse, coercion at end of life, and age-related vulnerabilities.
  • Recognise that older men as well as women are victims, and provide specialist services.
  • Mandate specialist training for professionals so older victims are not ‘downgraded’ or dismissed as low-risk.
  • Collect robust age- and gender-segmented data to monitor risk decisions and prevent systemic neglect of older victim-survivors.

Hourglass is urging those keen to support the charity to donate by visiting www.wearehourglass.org.uk/donate or Text SAFER to 70460 to donate £10.

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Life-saving ambulance drugs programme

MINISTER MARKS INTERNATIONAL OVERDOSE AWARENESS DAY

Drugs and Alcohol Policy Minister Maree Todd has praised the Scottish Ambulance Service’s successful Take Home Naloxone (THN) programme, which has now issued more than 4,000 kits.

On a visit to Springburn Ambulance Station in Glasgow to mark International Overdose Awareness Day, Ms Todd was trained to use naloxone kits which temporarily reverse the effects of an opioid overdose.

The packs are given out to people at risk and their families who can use them to deal with any future overdose while they wait for the ambulance to arrive.

Since Scotland’s National Naloxone Programme began in 2011, up to December 2024, a total of 205,650 take-home naloxone kits have been issued.

Ms Todd said: “Every drug death is a tragedy, and my condolences go to anyone who has lost a loved one, on a day where we remember them.

“The work done by the Scottish Ambulance Service and other partners has been instrumental in saving lives, especially at a time when naloxone has become even more important. I am a grateful for the hard work of all the staff who provide this vital frontline service. I was very pleased to hear about the continued progress in delivery and to be shown how to use the naloxone kits.

“Due to the presence of an increasingly unpredictable drug supply of highly dangerous synthetic opioids like nitazenes, which raise the risk of overdose, hospitalisation and death, I would urge anyone who carries naloxone to have extra life-saving kits with them so repeat doses can be given if required.  

“I am determined to do even more to tackle the harm caused by drugs. That’s why we are providing record levels of funding for drugs and alcohol programmes, including widening access to treatment, residential rehabilitation and life-saving naloxone. We have also supported and funded the opening of the UK’s first Safer Drug Consumption Facility, and are working at pace to deliver drug-checking facilities.”

All SAS crews have been trained in in distributing naloxone since 2023, following the launch of its training programme in 2021. As well as treating people for the effects of overdose themselves, and handing out the take-home kits, crews are providing a vital link to support and treatment.

Scottish Ambulance Service CEO Michael Dickson said: “Our staff respond with care and compassion to anyone who experiences an overdose.

“Our call handlers can offer advice during the 999 call, and our ambulance clinicians provide crucial treatment when they arrive at the scene.

“Ambulance crews are able to supply Take Home Naloxone, are starting to provide clean sterile injecting equipment, and can also connect people experiencing problematic substance use with other services who can provide further care and treatment.”

Miller Homes prepares to launch trio of new developments 

Edinburgh-based homebuilder brings over 300 new homes to Edinburgh, East Calder and Falkirk

Miller Homes, one of Scotland’s leading homebuilders, is set to launch three highly anticipated new developments in the East of Scotland, bringing 328 new energy-efficient homes to sought-after locations within easy reach of Edinburgh.

The developments; West Craigs Mews in Edinburgh; Avonside Wisp in Whitecross, Falkirk; and East Calder Oaks in East Calder will offer a range of contemporary family homes designed to meet the needs of growing communities.

West Craigs Mews launches for sale on 30 August and will comprise 92 private homes including three-bedroom terraced houses, three and four-bedroom townhouses, and four and five-bedroom detached homes.

Avonside Wisp launches for sale on 6 September and features 169 three, four, and five-bedroom homes – perfect for families seeking a well-connected location near Linlithgow and Edinburgh.

East Calder Oaks is set to launch in October 2025. This community will include 67 of Miller Homes’ larger four and five-bedroom detached properties, offering spacious and flexible living for growing families in the desirable West Lothian area.

All three developments will feature Miller Homes’ latest collection of modern, energy-efficient properties, each designed with sustainability and comfort in mind. Every home also comes with a 10-year NHBC warranty for peace of mind.

Commenting on the upcoming launches, Miller Homes’ Sales Director for Scotland East, Neil Gaffney said: “We’re excited to bring these three developments to market, offering buyers a fantastic choice of high-quality new homes in some of the most desirable areas surrounding Edinburgh.

“From family-friendly detached houses in East Calder to a mix of townhouses and terraces in Edinburgh’s West Craigs Village, and a thriving new community in Whitecross, there’s something for everyone.

“With strong demand for high quality new homes in the East of Scotland, these launches mark an important milestone in our commitment to creating thriving communities where people are proud to live.”

The first homes at West Craigs Mews, East Calder Oaks and Avonside Wisp will be ready to move into in April 2026.

Interested buyers can register now to be the first to hear about the summer releases at millerhomes.co.uk.

Wester Hailes Post Office: October move confirmed

  • Move to Plaza News, Unit 23-26 Upper Ground Floor Level, Westside Plaza
  • Monday to Saturday: 9am – 5.30pm
  • 51 hours of Post Office service per week
  • Branch would open on Saturday afternoons
  • Experienced postmasters

Post Office has agreed to relocate Wester Hailes Post Office in October to a new location – Plaza News, Unit 23-26 Upper Ground Floor Level, Westside Plaza, Edinburgh, EH14 2SW.

Wester Hailes Post Office, which is currently directly managed by Post Office, will be run by our new retail franchise partner at the new location within the same shopping centre. 

Father and son, Mohammed and Aamir Arshad have run Plaza News, a hardware and convenience store, since 2016. Previously they ran Whitecraig Post Office and off-licence store in Musselburgh for six years.

The current branch at 14A Westside Plaza will close on Monday 6 October at 5.30pm, with the new branch opening, at Plaza News on Tuesday 7 October at 1pm.

Post Office Limited recently announced it is moving to a fully franchised network, as part of our wider commitment to deliver a “New Deal for Postmasters”.

Over 99% of the Post Office network is already successfully operated on a franchise basis by carefully selected retail partners. We are confident this would create a long-term, sustainable future for post offices in communities across the UK, including Wester Hailes.

After careful consideration of the feedback received during consultation, we remain confident that the layout and location of the new branch will continue to meet customer needs and deliver an excellent service, whilst securing the long-term viability of Post Office services in the local community.  

The same range of services will still be available, including an internal ATM.

The opening hours will be Monday to Saturday: 9am – 5.30pm. This will be an extra 5 hours and 30 minutes of Post Office service a week including Saturday afternoon and earlier opening on a Tuesday morning than currently for the convenience of customers.

Wester Hailes Post Office will have two open plan serving positions at the retail counter.

There is a car park at the shopping center with dedicated disabled parking bays on upper level where the new branch will be located.

Current Post Office employees have the opportunity to TUPE across to continue to work at the relocated branch.

The hidden folklore shaping Edinburgh’s past revealed in new tour

This September, step beneath the Royal Mile and into a world where history and folklore entwine, as The Real Mary King’s Close unveils its brand-new “Myths and Legends Tour”.

Throughout the month, Edinburgh’s hidden streets will reveal the stories that have plagued the city for centuries, as visitors wander through the dimly lit closes, guided by tales – steeped in history – of witches and fairies.

From the eerie glow of the Will-o’-the-Wisp to the mysterious tiny coffins un-earthed on Arthur’s Seat, discover how these incredible stories have shaped the city’s identity and continue to echo beneath its streets.

Among the figures brought to life on the tour are the Glaistig, half-woman and half-goat, said to guard cattle and mislead travellers, the sound of pipers believed to remain lost beneath the city, and headless drummers once thought to warn off danger.

Legends of goddesses and fairies blur the line between history and myth, weaving tales that link Edinburgh’s present to the lives, dreams, and anxieties of those who walked its closes centuries ago.

In 2024, The Real Mary King’s Close was crowned the UK’s best tourist attraction in the TripAdvisor® Travellers’ Choice® Awards ‘Best of the Best’, also ranking 11th among Europe’s top visitor attractions. It continues to captivate visitors with its unique blend of history, storytelling, and immersive experiences.

Paul Nixon, General Manager at The Real Mary King’s Close, said: “Edinburgh has always been a city of stories, and the Close holds some of its darkest and most captivating.

“These legends reveal the fears and beliefs of the real people who lived here, and experiencing them underground, in the streets where these lives unfolded, makes the past feel immediate and alive.”

The new Myths and Legends tours take place every Friday and Saturday throughout September, starting on 5th September, with two departures each day at 16.00 and 17.30.

The one-hour tours are limited to 20 guests, and visitors are advised to prebook as tours are expected to sell out fast.

Sona: BBC ALBA lets off steam in new sauna culture series

BBC ALBA is set to explore the wellness trend taking off in Scotland in a brand-new series, Sona.

Launching exclusively on BBC iPlayer tonight (Saturday 30 August) at 10pm, viewers can relax and unwind with presenters and close friends, Vicky Kilgour and Duncan MacDonald, as the pair embark on a wellbeing journey, sampling saunas and wellness activities along Scotland’s west coast – from Argyll to Duncan’s homeland on the Isle of Skye.

Sona – meaning ‘happy’ in Scottish Gaelic – uncovers friendship, open conversations and finding the path to true personal wellbeing through this growing wellness movement. 

From boosting cardiovascular health to reducing stress, saunas are increasingly recognised as a tonic for supporting both the body and the mind. And with Finland, Denmark, Iceland and Sweden recently ranked as the world’s happiest nations in The World Happiness Report 2025, all having saunas at the centre of their daily lives, Vicky and Duncan explore whether Scotland can find its own version of health and happiness in this funny, heartfelt, honest and at times, moving series.

Along their quest to find ultimate contentment, sauna evangelist Vicky shares her happy place with her friend Duncan – a sauna novice and someone whose happy-go-lucky nature and endless curiosity mean he is always looking for the next thing to get obsessed about.

In the first episode, Vicky takes Duncan out of his comfort zone as the pair travel to Asknish Bay in Argyll and Bute for a chilly dook, before introducing him to her favourite local sauna. Keen to keep up the wellness adventure, the pair also try out mud baths and salt scrubs with inspiring locals who embody the wellbeing lifestyle.

As their journey continues up the west coast, Vicky and Duncan take on more holistic activities, including yoga and reiki, as well as embracing outdoor pursuits such as kayaking in the waters surrounding Skye, and even gorging, all in search of inner peace.

Both from different backgrounds and generations, Duncan and Vicky’s unlikely friendship is the centrepiece of Sona. Having been close friends for many years, they will talk about everything and anything, nothing is off limits. 

The pair have helped each through some of life’s toughest moments, and are now supporting each other on their wellness journey.

Presenter, Vicky Kilgour said: “Scotland has loads of wild saunas and wellness resources and I am on a mission to try them all in the hope of finding happiness with my close pal, Duncan.

“Sauna culture has truly taken hold here in Scotland, especially along our coasts where wild swimmers use them as a way to warm up after a cool dip.

“In this new series, we’re discovering that saunas are offering people a way to come together, recharge, and embrace healthier lifestyles.”

Duncan MacDonald added: “Although I was a bit sceptical at first, I have now truly embraced the wellness journey after exploring sauna spots along the west coast of Scotland with Vicky.

“From the sense of calm after a session to the way it lifts your mood, it’s amazing how something as simple as sitting in a hot container can have such a big impact on your health and happiness.

“Viewers looking to embrace the sauna culture – hats and all – might be surprised by just how good it makes them feel.”

Sona will premiere exclusively on BBC iPlayer on Saturday 30 August from 10pm.

Viewers can watch the new series on BBC ALBA from Thursday 4 September at 10pm :  https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m002j0sm

National Galleries of Scotland celebrate 175 years of the National gallery by revealing original plans for swimming baths under the building

Marking 175 years since Prince Albert laid the foundation stone of the National on 30 August 1850, the National Galleries of Scotland has shared its fascinating original building plans.

The National is an iconic part of the Edinburgh cityscape we know today, but the building itself could have been very different! One plan in particular by Robert. F. Gourlay from 1850 even shows underground baths and plunge pools incorporated beneath the gallery.

The drawing, held in the Historic Environment Scotland collection, shows the elevation of the terrace and plan of the basement, the same area where the National Galleries of Scotland opened the Scottish galleries at the National in September 2023.

You might be right in thinking that the condensation from swimming baths would not work well in an art gallery, but it was considered during the initial planning phase for the building.

The plan shows separate male and female plunge pools, baths and dressing rooms, as well as ‘lodgings for the keeper of the women’s and men’s baths’. The male and female areas would be separated by a 7ft wall and all the pools would be heated.

This is just one of many plans that were created ahead of the building of the National, alongside designs by the likes of Royal Scottish Academy treasurer, Thomas Hamilton. It was Scottish architect William Henry Playfair who was eventually commissioned to prepare final designs for the iconic National building we know and love today.

Playfair’s building – like its neighbour, the Royal Scottish Academy, also designed by him – was designed in the form of an ancient Greek temple. More than any other architect, Playfair was responsible for Edinburgh earning its reputation as ‘The Athens of the North’.  

However, it took nearly five years to officially appoint Playfair as the architect following arguments between the members of the Board and the Royal Scottish Academy around what the building should look like.

Others also believed it shouldn’t be built at all and would only destroy the natural beauty of the city centre. During this limbo period many architects drafted their own suggestions for how they envisioned Scotland’s national gallery, including swimming baths.

Even once appointed, Playfair’s original plans differed from the building we recognise today. Originally, he set to build towers at the corners of the transverse central block, but these were abandoned during the project due to financial concerns. In fact Playfair was instructed by the Treasury to keep any kind of ornament to a minimum, because of financial stringency.

The concerns around cost weren’t the only restrictions put on Playfair’s design. He also faced town planning concerns. The council requested that Playfair ensured that the building blended into its naturally beautiful setting and did not detract from the rugged grandeur of the Castle Rock.

In fact the lack of grandeur left Lord Rutherford, a member of the Board and leading champion of the Royal Scottish Academy, to say say  ‘I feel sure that the architecture of this building will be too simple and pure to captivate the multitude, but I am certain I follow the right path in what I am doing and so am content.’ 

150 years on the National gallery stands as an iconic building in Edinburgh’s landscape and last year certainly ‘captivated the multitude’, with a record-breaking year, welcoming nearly two million visitors.

By 1850 the Treasury were so intent on speeding up the execution of the building that Playfair was permitted to begin work before his contract drawings were completed. However, this encountered its own issues when the Board found its hand forced in the matter of the foundation ceremony.

The Lord Provost of Edinburgh, Sir William Johnstone, issued a personal invitation to Prince Albert during his presentation in London.

The Prince was incredibly keen to attend and even suggested that the Royal family would break their long journey to Balmoral at Holyrood. However, this left only a few weeks to finalise plans for the ceremony and posed a certain embarrassment since the foundations had not even been cut.

This massively expedited the process and by August 30, 1850, Edinburgh society gathered to witness the laying of the foundation stone, followed by celebrations.

The National opened nine years after the first stone was laid, with Prince Albert giving a moving speech in which he hailed the Playfair-designed building as a “temple erected to the Fine Arts”.

The building was officially opened on 24 March 1859. When the National was first opened to the public it had later opening hours on Saturday and Wednesday evenings so that working people could have the chance to view the national art collection.

The original founders of the National gallery seemed to agree with what we know now – that art can transform lives by supporting health and wellbeing, self-expression and social skills.

Anne Lyden, Director-General of the National Galleries of Scotland, said: “It is fascinating to look back on these old plans from 175 years ago and see where we started and where we are now.

“While the building stands true to its original design on the outside, we have continued to adapt inside, making Scotland’s world-class collection of art more accessible than ever before.  

“We continue to hold those ideals of the original founders, that art can be transformative to people’s health and wellbeing.

“We put this at the heart of everything we do, with the galleries free-to-visit 7 days a week and ensuring we make art work for everyone.

“We also continue to grow the visitor experience at the National. In 2023 we opened the Scottish galleries at the National, transforming the visitor experience with 12 new breath-taking accessible spaces dedicated to showcasing the very best historic Scottish art.

“Whether exploring the galleries with friends, stopping off in the café, or entertaining the family with new trails, audio guides and events, there is something for everyone to discover at the National… although maybe not swimming pools!”