Letter: Children struggling with disordered eating are not alone

Dear Editor,

This National Eating Disorders Awareness Week (23 February to 2 March), I’d like to remind children and young people who are struggling with disordered eating that you’re not alone.

I was a confident and happy child, but from a young age I was surrounded by diet culture that made me believe my body should be smaller. What began as insecurity when I was five, slowly developed into years of disordered eating and anorexia. At times, I felt consumed by food, calories, and the pressure to shrink myself. Even when I seemed ‘fine’, I was struggling more than anyone realised.

If you’re reading this and recognise yourself, please know support is available. An eating disorder is not your fault, and you deserve help and compassion. Reaching out for help can feel frightening – I remember that feeling well – but it’s also the first step towards getting better.

Talk to someone you trust, whether that’s a friend, teacher, parent or GP. And if speaking to someone you know feels too difficult, you can contact the NSPCC’s Childline service anonymously by calling 0800 1111 or visit: www.childline.org.uk.

You don’t need to have the right words or even know exactly what’s wrong – they will listen, without judgement, and help you find a way forward.

No one should face an eating disorder alone. Reaching out for support is an act of real courage, and the first step towards recovery.

With all my best wishes, Lauren* (age 24) from Scotland

NSPCC Lived Experience Advocate

*Lauren is not her real name – she requested that we protect her identity